Archives For suffering

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The beautiful woman spread her hand out above the fire, sprinkling something in it. Whatever it was, it released an intoxicating smell, which made all of the senses go drowsy. Her captives would soon forget their home, under the magic of her spell. When they had forgotten their true home, they would forever be a part of hers, slaves of her dark intentions.

Until one of he captives, whose name was Puddleglum, had an idea. He ran over to the fire and threw himself in it, crushing it beneath his bare feet. Though this action did not completely put out the fire, it did something else, which was even more important. It woke him up. Here are C. S. Lewis’ words in The Silver Chair, “The pain itself made Puddleglum’s head for a moment perfectly clear and he knew exactly what he really thought. There is nothing like a good shock of pain for dissolving certain kinds of magic.”

The pain of the fire woke him up from the magic spell of the witch.

Pain wakes us up from certain kinds of magic that this world uses on us. Puddleglum found clarity in the fire. Now, I am not saying that we ought to inflict pain on ourselves in order to think straight. We’re not to interpret this fairy tale like that. Rather, the fairy tale teaches us that even the unwelcome trials in our lives can be a source of immense good. They have a sobering effect, releasing us from something that’s more dangerous than physical pain.

What is more dangerous than physical pain? Forgetting.

Forgetting who we are is more damaging than any fire. Forgetting whose we are is even worse. Forgetting our true home is lethal. Forgetting our purpose, mission, and calling will kill us. Forgetting where we came from, who put us here, and where we are going, will wreck us. Never remembering the thing you are longing for, will throw you into despair.

What if we don’t know the answers to these questions? Then we are under the spell. The magic is having its effect on us.

The fiery trial you are experiencing right now might be just the thing you need. Yes, trials are bad. However, we gain great clarity in them. We see something we have never seen before; we realize something that we have long forgotten. We throw off the chains of indifference, apathy, laziness, and neglect. We learn what’s most important, what we have forgotten, and how to proceed.

Unfortunately, fire does irreparable damage; trials cause loss. But the thing that we gain will one day surpass the thing that we lost.

where was God logo episode 6 his comforting presenceHere is the six video in our series “Where Was God?”  In this episode, we’ll see how God is present with us in the Person of his Holy Spirit.  When we draw near to God in times of trial, he will draw near to us.  Not only that, but God will encourage us to persevere; he will cheer us on and he does not want us to give up.

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where was God logo episode 5 his resurrectionThis is video 5 of 8 in our series, “Where Was God?”  This week, to answer this question, we’ll look to the resurrection of Jesus.  In the resurrection, we’ll find true hope.  We’ll also learn of a very helpful acronym for the word H.O.P.E.  Thanks for watching and be sure to tell a friend about Hope Stands.

where was God logo episode 4 his deathIn this fourth episode of our series “Where Was God?” we look at the main battle that Jesus was engaged in.  Because he was fighting for us, he could not fight for himself.  Even when it seems like life is hard for us, we have to realize that his work is infinitely harder than our own.  He is a part of the much bigger struggle.  

where was God logo episode 3 his birthThis is episode 3 of 8 in our video series, “Where Was God?” We discover a third answer to this question when we consider the birth of Jesus. Jesus was born into a massacre.  This means that we can locate him within our suffering.  He is no stranger to our tears, but joins us in our weeping.  Where was God?  He was and is with us.  (A big shout out to Derek Brumby for all the work he did on editing this video!)

where was God episode 2This is episode 2 in our series “Where Was God?”  In order to answer this question, it is critical for us to understand the true work of Jesus.  In this video, I answer the question, “If Jesus died for us, then why do we still have to die?”  I hope that you find this helpful in your understanding of God’s work in this world.

where was God episode 1We’re beginning a new video series called “Where Was God?” It’s meant to help us reconcile the existence of suffering with the belief in God. In this first of eight episodes, we look at the Incarnation of Jesus Christ in order to discover the lengths he went to be with us and to be one of us.

17707This is the kind of promise from God’s word that your heart needs to soak in:

“For this light and momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison” (2 Corinthians 4:17).

The Greek words behind the phrase “beyond all comparison” are actually a repetition of the same word, which is the root word behind our English word “hyperbole.”  It’s as if we’ll gain an eternal weight of glory that is so massive, that it is a “hyperbole beyond all hyperboles.”  A hyperbole, by the way, is an extreme exaggeration.  “I would swim all of the oceans to prove my love for you,” would be an example of a hyperbole.  So what would a “hyperbole beyond all hyperboles” be?  How about: “I would swim all of the oceans to prove my love for you—and I would do it an infinite amount of times.”  That’s a hyperbole beyond all hyperboles!

The light and momentary affliction of our lives is preparing for us some glory that is equivalent to a hyperbole beyond all hyperboles.  The idea behind “preparing” is that of production or manufacturing.  We’re in a factory of affliction, which is producing “glory” for us at the end of the assembly line.  To us that seems impossible; but to God it is possible.

Now imagine a huge scale, the old kind that consists of a balance and two saucers, in which you place the items being weighed.  On one side of the scale, place all of your trials in the weighing dish.  Actually, place all of the trials of the whole world in one of the dishes.  Think of all of the evil that has ever been done, whether by you or Hitler.  Think of all of the evil that is yet to be done, and place it, too, in that dish.  That seems like a heavy load, and it is.  One can barely think about all of the evil ever done or ever to be done, to children or families or races, without breaking down in tears.  But hoist it up on one end of the scale, in one of the dishes.

Now go to the other side of the scale and to the other dish.  Now place in it the “eternal weight of glory” that God is preparing for us.  What happens next will blow your mind.  It turns out that the “eternal weight of glory” far outweighs the other side of the scale.  The eternal weight of glory slams down, being far heavier than all of the evil ever done, making the side of evil look like goose feathers.  It’s not even close.

The weight of glory that God is preparing for us makes our present trials seem to be lightweight contenders.  FeathersDustMomentary.  The scale does not tip one millimeter in their direction.  The glory of our God weighs them down and sends them up to heaven.

There is no comparison between the evil we experience and the glory that God is sovereignly producing for us.  To compare the two would require a hyperbole beyond all hyperboles.  Learn to know the secret work of your trials and see the hand of God at work in your life, adding weight to your future glory.

© Samuel Kee, 2012

breaking breadThe late Catholic priest Henri Nouwen often used a very helpful metaphor for the Christian life.  He said it was more than just the story of his own life, but the story of all our lives.  As a metaphor, it is quite profound, so let me share it with you briefly.  Nouwen sees the story of life in Jesus’ handling of the bread in Matthew 26:26.  Note the italicized words in the verse below:

Now as they were eating, Jesus took the bread, and after blessing it broke it and gave it to the disciples, and said, “Take, eat; this is my body.”

Nouwen imagined us to be the bread in the hands of Christ.  Jesus takes us, blesses us, breaks us, and then gives us.  Jesus makes it clear that he is the bread, not us; however, let’s explore this idea of us being the bread in his hands.

Taken

First, Jesus takes the bread.  Jesus chooses his people; he hand-selects them to be his disciples.  If you are a follower of Jesus, then you are someone that Jesus has chosen from the beginning of time.  “He chose us in him before the foundation of the world” (Ephesians 1:4).  The first act in your relationship with God is nothing that you can do, but something that Jesus has to do.  Jesus has to take you, choose you, and rescue you from judgment, before it’s too late.  How do you know if he has chosen you?  We know that he has chosen us when we begin to desire him.

Blessed

Second, Jesus blesses the bread.  After he rescues us from the basket of destruction, taking us to himself, he changes our eternal destiny through the merciful and magnificent act of his blessing.  Jesus lifts us up to his Father and pronounces us blessed, giving us the status of beloved children of God.  Again, Ephesians 1, verses 3, 7, and 8:

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places…In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace, which he lavished upon us, in all wisdom and insight.

Taking just an ordinary piece of bread, Jesus blesses it, and turns it into an object to be envied.  Jesus pours out on us ordinary loaves “every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places.”  He gives us the gifts of both redemption and forgiveness, which can be bought only with precious blood (Hebrews 9:22).  He gives blood for bread.  He turns us crusty bits into kings and queens.  Do you realize that you are both chosen and blessed?

Broken

Third, Jesus breaks the bread.  Only after he takes the bread and blesses the bread, Jesus breaks the bread.  Having saturated the bread with every spiritual nectar, it is now ready to be tested.  Breaking is symbolic of suffering.  When we place ourselves in Jesus hands, he not only blesses us, but also he allows suffering to come into our lives.  We can never know the “why” of suffering, but we can know the “what” of suffering.  “For this light and momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison” (2 Corinthians 4:17).  What is suffering achieving?  It is achieving an eternal weight of glory for us, which will cause our present trials to seem like goose feathers.  Just as Jesus’ trials led to resurrection, so will ours.

Given

Fourth, Jesus gives the bread.  Just as Jesus handed out the pieces of bread to all those in the room with him, so does he hand us out to those in our lives.  This gets to a deeper reason for our suffering.  Only after we’re broken, are we multiplied.  Our trials of brokenness lead not only to an eternal weight of glory for us, but also for those around us.  Our election, blessedness, and brokenness are the ingredients for ministry to others.  God hands us out to those around us, for their sustenance and spiritual nutrition.  This is how Jesus puts it in Matthew 25:34-36:

Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world.  For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.

Those who were chosen from the foundation of the world and blessed by the Father, will be given to the aid of others.  Jesus chooses us in order to bless us, break us, and give us.  We are the bread in his able hands.  The only way for us to be faithful as bread, is first to look to the Bread of Life, Jesus, who was taken, blessed, broken, and given for us all.

Can you identify any of this powerful pattern in your own life?

© Samuel Kee. 2012

H.O.P.E. (Hold On, Pain Ends)

samuel kee —  December 14, 2012 — 3 Comments

hold on pain endsOne of the Hope Stands readers, Hailey, just sent me this powerful acronym for H.O.P.E.: “Hold On, Pain Ends.”  We at Hope Stands couldn’t agree more.  That’s our passion and God’s promise to you.  We want you to know that the pain does not last forever; it is only something that you’re passing through.  You won’t remain in it; and it won’t remain.  I promise.

Look at the moon and remember this promise, “Hold On, Pain Ends.”  The presence of the moon proves that the sun still exists, though you can’t see it in your present darkness.  The moon shows us that the sun is still out there, on its way, and we just need to hold on a little longer.  This night will pass.

Or look to Jesus, who came back as living proof of hope.  He stood before aching people with the promise of H.O.P.E.  When his friend Mary was plunged into sorrow, Jesus stood before her and said, “Hold on, pain ends.”  When the disciples were paralyzed by fear, Jesus broke into the place where they locked themselves and announced, “Hold on, pain ends.”  When Thomas was plagued with doubt, Jesus entered into his hurt and spoke, “Hold on, pain ends.”  Jesus wants to enter into every crisis, with arms waving and voice raised, shouting, “Hold on, pain ends!”

Motioning to his resurrected body, he smiles.  This is what happens to pain: it all ends in life and victory.  Nothing or no one has the last laugh but Jesus.

Hold on, pain ends.

© Samuel Kee, 2012