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apart from meWhat do you sweat over?  When the first man, Adam, was confronted by God because of his disobedience, God said to him, “By the sweat of your face you shall eat bread, till you return to the ground, for out of it you were taken; for you are dust, and to dust you shall return” (Genesis 3:19).  In other words, life would be hard for Adam—real hard—and then he would die.  Now that he chose to go his own way, leaving the presence of God, it would be just he and the land, and the land would win.  Sweat symbolized hardship, futility, and death.

As we prepare for Easter, we have to go to the other garden, the Garden of Gethsemane.  Here we find the second Adam at work, sweating from the same curse, as it pushed its way from Adam to Jesus.  “And being in an agony he prayed more earnestly; and his sweat became like great drops of blood falling down to the ground” (Luke 22:44).  The curse reached its climax in Jesus; he is its true destination.  And with him, it stops.  Jesus caught the curse started by Adam and put an end to it, by bearing it in himself.  As his blood falls to the ground, we see him turning back into dust, right before our eyes.  We see the curse being fully spent on his life, in his being.  Now the blood he sowed into the garden becomes the seed of our new life—a life without the curse.

He was in great agony, as proven by his sweat; but his hard labor was not to feed himself bread, but to feed us the bread of his life.  The Bread of Life came from the seed of blood that fell into the garden.  It’s the true food that we have been longing for our whole lives.  It’s bread that will actually satisfy us, rather than humiliate us, curse us, or leave us hungry.

His great labor was to free you from the curse and to bring you back into Paradise.  Do you think your life is cursed?  Is that what you sweat over?  Jesus received your curse in full, so that you could have new life.  Your curse is broken.

© Samuel Kee, 2013

the king logoMy friend Robbie Kellogg and I have been writing songs together.  Since it’s March 1 and Easter is at the end of this month, I thought I’d give you a sneak peak at one of our original Passion songs.  It’s a rough cut of a song called The King.  Let me know what you think!  (The lyrics are below and follow the link to listen to the song.)

 

The King

I bow at your feet,

Enthroned without a seat.

You stretch out your arm,

To protect me from this harm.

 

I look in your palm,

Your scepter is not drawn.

I look at your crown,

It is running down.

 

I look at your robe,

Enemies do you clothe.

Then you lift up your voice

And declare:

 

“They know not what they’ve done.

Forgive them for nailing me on a sinner’s throne.”

 

But you still command,

When they make up their plan.

They open your side,

Your heart does not hide.

 

© Kee-Log, 2013

The Centurion

samuel kee —  April 6, 2012 — 2 Comments
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The centurion recognized a fellow warrior when he saw one.

He was a good old boy.  He loved his beer and he loved to fight.  He was good at it, too.  You had to be, if you were going to be in charge of 100 Roman soldiers.  He had seen plenty of action, both defending Rome and with the temple prostitutes.  He tried his best to appease his many gods and stay loyal to Caesar, whom he had to address as, “The Son of God.”  How pretentious.  Today was just like any other day, as he was given oversight of the executions.  He was a professional executer, you might say.  He had performed hundreds and hundreds of them.  Once, they lined up six thousand crucified men along the road; death stretched for miles.

He knew exactly how to put a guy to death, had it down to a science.  Depending on the occasion, like if there was a festival or some gladiatorial event at the coliseum, he could speed up the criminal’s death.  You just had to break their legs or pierce their hands.  By breaking the legs, the victim could not push off the cross in order to catch their breath.  By piercing their hands, there was more blood-letting, hastening the process.  The centurion could also prolong the victim’s death, too, if he wanted to inflict maximum torture.  He would just place a seat beneath his naked buttocks, forcing the criminal to sit down, enabling him to breathe better.  By increasing his oxygen just a little, his excruciating suffering would drag out, even longer.

Crucifixion was invented by the Persians centuries before.  And by the first century A.D., Rome had it down to a science.  They knew how to inflict maximum punishment.  The whole point of crucifixion was to cause both humiliation and suffering.  Crucified criminals would be displayed publicly, like along roads, so that everyone could see them.  It was as if to say, “Don’t do what this guy did, or this will happen to you.”  Birds would gorge on the criminal’s rotting flesh.  People would hurl both insults and bodily fluid on them.  They’d be hung at eye-level, so that everyone could look them in the face and offer ridicule.  All the while, the victims slowly died by asphyxiation.  This means that they did not get enough oxygen in their bloodstream, because they cannot breathe normally.  So they’ll get extremely weak as all the blood is absorbed from the bloodstream.  They’ll pass in and out of consciousness, until finally they never wake up.

It’s humiliating, too, since the victim will lose all control of bodily functions.  Grown men will relieve themselves, weep like a baby, and throw up.  They have absolutely no strength and no control.  They are utterly weak.

The centurion had seen this hundreds and hundreds of times.  Nobody died any differently.  Until he met Jesus.

It had been a pretty routine procedure.  Jesus was stripped, scourged, and nailed to a cross.  The bloodletting happened early on, to hasten his death.  He was beaten so badly by the cat-of-nine-tails by the Roman guard, that not even his own mother could recognize him.  The scourge laid open his body from head to toe, breaking his ribs in the process.  He was scarred and swollen, bloody and bruised.  The nine-inch-spikes of the date palm were sunk into his skull, as the soldiers crowned him with this sardonic symbol.  He was so weak and broken before the crucifixion took place that he couldn’t even carry his own crossbeam.  The centurion knew it wouldn’t be long.  Maybe he could go visit his cult prostitute later that night, enjoy some wine, and relax.

Yes, everything was going according to procedure.  It wouldn’t be long now.  His buddies were having some fun with the one in the middle, whose notice of charges above his head stated, “King of the Jews.”  They grabbed the stick and sponge.  This is what they used to clean themselves with, after going to the bathroom.  They put some sour wine on it and shoved it in Jesus’ mouth.  Yet even their wicked cruelty couldn’t provoke Jesus.  He didn’t curse them; strangely, he said, “Father, forgive them.”

The hours went on.  The three executions were coming to an end, the centurion knew it.  They were all getting weaker and weaker.  Barely any breath was coming out of any of them, especially the one in the middle, the “King.”  He was haunting to watch; a slight feeling of shame crept over the centurion.  This Jesus was not like the others, who acted just as horribly as every other man in the centurion’s life.

It looked like some invisible pillow was smothering Jesus.  His blackouts were getting longer and longer.  His body, though caked with dried blood, was getting pale.  The dirt beneath the cross was saturated with blood, so that it was both sticky and sweet.  It wouldn’t be long now.

The scene was getting quieter and quieter.

Just then, the unthinkable happened.  Jesus’ eyes blazed with fire.  The muscles in his neck bulged as they bled.  He lifted up his head and screamed, “Ahhhhhhhhhhh!”  The scream lasted for several moments.

“And Jesus uttered a loud cry and breathed his last” (Mark 15:37).  The centurion jolted out of his routine.  He was both amazed and terrified at the same time.  He couldn’t believe it.  He had never seen or heard anything like this before.  In hundreds of executions, this was a first.  Unable to hold in his words, he said “Truly this man was the Son of God!” (Mark 15:39).  “When the centurion, who stood facing him, saw that in this way he breathed his last,” he knew that Jesus was no ordinary man.

In fact, unable to control himself, the centurion called Jesus what he was only supposed to call Caesar—son of God—the one to whom he had sworn allegiance.

What did the centurion see?  What was so utterly radical about Jesus’ death?  Jesus let out a loud shout.  That was not supposed to happen.  By definition, when one dies from crucifixion, he dies of weakness.  You have no strength and no breath.  You have no oxygen and no air with which to shout.  You are overcome, you do not overcome.

The centurion had never heard anything like that before—wait, yes he had.  He had heard a shout like that before, on the battlefield.  Jesus made the sound of a battle cry.  Only he did not make the sound of the defeated, but of the defeater.  Jesus made the sound of a rushing army, overcoming the enemy and shouting out victory.

The centurion realized that Jesus went into death conquering.  Jesus was not simply being overcome; Jesus was overcoming.  Jesus was defeating the enemy, not being defeated.  Jesus was not weak, but strong.  When the centurion saw this, he couldn’t help but realize that he was face-to-face with someone greater than Caesar, greater than death itself.

The centurion recognized a fellow warrior when he saw one.

What did Jesus conquer?  He conquered your sin.  He conquered your slavery to the things you don’t want to do, but you just can’t help it.  He conquered your punishment—this means that God will never punish you, if you’re relying on him.  Jesus conquered your guilt and your shame, the stuff that you just can’t get rid of.  Jesus conquered your judgment.  Jesus conquered your separation from God.  Nothing is keeping you from God anymore.  Jesus conquered your death.  One day, his victory will be your victory, and you can rise from the grave like him.

The centurion recognized a King when he saw one.  Do you?

© Samuel Kee, 2012

Here’s a video I made for the Easter season. It’s based on my book, Hope Stands: Ten Reasons Why You Must Not Give Up (you can find it on Amazon). The video was filmed near my home in Chicago.

Why did he do it?

samuel kee —  March 31, 2012 — Leave a comment

God didn’t want to go another day without you.

“I’m gay.”  That’s what the note said.  It was the last thing his teenage son wrote before he hung himself in the attic.  That was the second personal tragedy in my friend’s life.  First, his wife left him.  Now, alone in his home with the cold body of his son, he was enduring what no father should have to go through.  It’s just not right.  My friend thought to himself, “Had my son only known how much I loved him and that what he wrote on the note didn’t matter.”

Just over a year later, the police came to the workplace of my friend.  More bad news.  They told him that his other son had been shot, as he was trying to break up a fight between two others.  In case you’re doubting, this is a true story—and it’s just not right.  No father should have to go through what my friend did.

It’s been many years since these tragedies, but no amount of time can take away the sting.

It’s been many years since another tragedy, in fact, it’s been many centuries.  But that sickening feeling in the gut remains.  No father should have to go through what this Father had to go through.

And it’s just not right.  That’s the thought you’re supposed to have when you hear about the life and death of Jesus.  Any honest reading of Mark’s Gospel will give you this feeling.  The historian and writer Mark spends most of his ink establishing Jesus as God’s Son.  The first fourteen chapters of his book are loaded with descriptions of Jesus’ divinity, power, perfection, and right to the helm of the cosmos.  Jesus was God’s Son: he healed the sick, made the blind to see and the deaf to hear.  He displayed stunning power over demons and nature.  Quite literally, Jesus walked on water.

No person ever lived like he.  No human had a resume like his.  He didn’t just act like God, he was God.  All honor and glory should be his.  He ought to have the right over every life, to dispose of every creature as he wished.  Indeed, he ought to exercise that right, especially given what we’ve done to our world and to each other.  We are so dark and he is so pure.

Then Mark turns the corner in his book in chapter 14.  He begins to take him down a few notches.  He narrates the humiliation of Jesus.

What did this humiliation look like?  Jesus was betrayed by one of his closest followers (14:43).  He was lied about, slandered, and testified against (14:56).  He was spit upon and slapped (14:65).  He was outright disowned (14:71).  He was legally accused (15:3).  He was judged less than a murderer, who was released (15:11).  He was mocked by a fake robe and a crown of thorns, struck on the head, stripped, tortured, and ultimately crucified (15:17-20).  On top of that, his remaining possessions were stolen from him (15:24) and everyone passing by his lifeless body reviled him (15:32).

After knowing what you know about Jesus and then reading how it all turns out, your overwhelming sensation should be, “That’s just not right.”

Anyone with a pulse should have the same moral outrage as that of my friend, if you truly grasp the significance of Jesus’ death.  This isn’t to minimize the pain that my friend went through, but to recalibrate your view of Jesus.  It was a tragedy.  God’s Son should never have to go through what he went through.

So why did he do it?  Why was he abused?  Why was he humiliated?

Because God didn’t want to go another day without you.  It feels like I’m committing an indecency even writing these words, but they are utterly true.  God chose to forsake his Son so that he could forgive you.  God crushed his boy in order to welcome you into his arms.  God, help me as I say this—God felt the same moral outrage at the thought of losing you, as we feel at the thought of losing a child.  God looked at you, seeing what might become of you if he didn’t intervene, and said, “That is not right.”

© Samuel Kee, 2012

Are You Cursed?

samuel kee —  April 22, 2011 — 1 Comment

He wore our curse as a crown.

Why didn’t they just stone him?  That’s what they usually did to false prophets.  Instead, they clamored to crucify him.  Crucifixion was something the brutal Romans did; it wasn’t for the Jews.  They would strip you bare and nail various body parts onto vertical and horizontal pieces of wood.  Grown men would lose control of all bodily functions while on the cross.  Women were rarely, if ever, crucified, because not even the Romans could stand the thought of a woman being hung on a cross.

So why did they crucify Jesus?  It was part of God’s perfect design.  God had written in the Old Testament that anyone who was hung on a tree would be under God’s curse (Deuteronomy 21:23).  Even more, they would be forced to die outside of the city, bearing the curse alone, so that the land would not be desecrated.  The one who died on the tree was to carry the curse so that the land and its people might be spared.

Right before Jesus was crucified, the soldiers twisted together a Date Palm branch and made a crown of thorns for him to wear.  The thorns of the Date Palm could be as long as nine inches.  This sardonic crown was then jammed onto Jesus’ head; yet, the soldiers did more than they realized.  The first curse came in Genesis 3, when God cursed the land because of Adam’s sin.  As a result, no matter how hard Adam would work the land, it would often produce thorns instead of crops.  Thorns, in other words, represented the curse.

Fast forward to Jesus, wearing the crown of thorns on Good Friday, dying alone on the tree outside of the city.  Jesus was wearing our curse, bearing our blame.  Jesus would die alone, outside of God’s presence and blessing, beneath God’s wrath and cursing.  He wore our curse as a crown on his head, taking from us the hat that was ours.  Even more, the fact that he was crowned turned Jesus in to the “King of Curses.”  He ruled over it, just as much as he was crushed under it.

All the while, the crown of glory would be shifted from his head to ours.  He would get the curse and we would get the grace. He would be totally rejected and we would be totally accepted.

He would die alone; and when we die, we will make it home.  Crucifixion was the means by which the judgment meant for us would be released onto him.  The judgment meant for your head has already landed on his.  This means that your future is safe.  When you stand before God, there will be no more curses left, for they all were spent on Jesus.

When the dust settles around the cross, you can go free.  This is true for every follower of Jesus.

© Samuel Kee, 2011

He Comes Back for Us

samuel kee —  April 21, 2011 — 2 Comments

He comes back even for those who have given up.

Have you ever been left behind?  Maybe a group of friends decided to leave without you.  Maybe your family couldn’t wait for you any longer, as you decided whether or not to join it.  Or maybe it was totally out of your control: someone special to you thought it best to move on.  Your dad left; your wife had enough; your child couldn’t forgive.

Or maybe death took them away from you.  And you find yourself in the ironic situation of being just a few feet away from their body at the cemetery, but there is an eternity separating the two of you.

Let’s be honest, sometimes we’re the ones who do the leaving.  We’ve had enough; we decided to move on; we want to see what it’s like where the grass is greener.  There’s a trail of broken hearts behind us, too.  There are countless moments in our lives when we turn our back on others and their eyes are following us out the door.  We don’t realize how much we do this to those who are close to us.

We know this because they do it to us, too.  Our eyes chase others out the door; we pretend like we’ll be alright, absorbing the empty space they leave behind.  We put another layer of insulation on our hearts to protect them from the next departure.

I’ll never forget a moment I had with a woman who came into my office to talk about her children with me.  As the youth pastor, she came to me to talk about some of the details of the student program.  But then all of the sudden, her countenance shifted; her eyes filled with tears, her voice trembled, and she began to plead with me.  “Sam,” she said with passion, “The kids have to know that you love them.”  She told me to forget about making the program perfect or trying to make my lessons last.  “Just love the kids!” she told me, again and again.

After making her point clear to me, she left.  I later learned that this woman had cancer; I also learned that her husband was abusive.  Her passion was born out of her situation.  She would not be there for her kids and her husband could not be trusted when she had passed.  She was looking for someone else to step up and show her kids the love that they needed when she was gone.  She was looking to me to take care of them after she had died; to come back for them when she couldn’t.

Who will come back for us?  That’s the question written on our hearts, no matter how many layers of self-sufficiency we put over it.  We want to belong and we want to know we’re worth it.  We want to be wanted with a love that is even stronger than death.

It’s not good enough for someone to fight traffic to get to us, though that will due.  It’s not good enough for someone to quit a job for us, though that will due, too.  Better would be the person who battles for us.  And if we’re not too proud to admit it, we spend our whole lives looking for that person who would die for us.

And we would die for that person, too.

Who will come back for us?  Who will be there for us, for better or for worse?

If you’re a follower of Jesus, you know that he is Someone who comes back for his people.  Jesus first came back for us when he travelled from Heaven’s side to earth.  Then death took him away, but he found a way to outmaneuver it, to crush it, so that he might burst from its jaws and be with us, once again.

Then we have those moments when it seems like everyone else sees Jesus, but we don’t.  Others get to experience him, but we’re all alone.  We can’t seem to find him, so we end up not believing in him.  I’m thinking of the disciple named Thomas (John 20:24-31).

If it were up to us, we’d leave that sort of non-believing person behind, but not Jesus.  Jesus comes back for us.  He comes back even for those who have given up on God.

He’ll come back ten thousand times if he has to, because the resurrection makes it possible.  The resurrection makes it probable.  Nothing can separate you from the love of God.  It’s there for those who don’t deserve it, believe in it, or who can’t earn it.

© Samuel Kee, 2011

I Love You (Dot, Dot, Dot)

samuel kee —  April 20, 2011 — 1 Comment

This is like hearing our lover tell us, "I love you..."

It’s the week before Easter: we remember Jesus’ death on the cross this Friday and we celebrate his resurrection this Sunday.  Personally, I am very busy right now, as I work at a grocery store, serve as the youth director at my local church, and prepare to preach the Easter message on Sunday.  That’s why my posts are lacking lately.

Nonetheless, there’s something about the account of the resurrection in John’s gospel that I want to share: Jesus gives us the precise medicine that we need.  Jesus does not expect us all to be the same, so neither should we.

Here’s what I’ve found: the apostle John needs only to see the grave clothes and he believes (John 20:8); Mary needs to hear Jesus’ voice before she is able to believe (20:16); the disciples, excluding Thomas, need to see Jesus’ scars in order to believe (20:20); but the disciple Thomas actually had to touch his scars in order to believe (20:25).  Thus the progression goes from seeing clothes, to hearing a voice, to seeing scars, then to touching scars.

Each person needed different evidence before he or she believed.

One thing to note about this is the order: evidence leads to belief and not the reverse.  Faith needs empirical evidence; God does not ask us to believe blindly.  The first followers of Jesus did not “believe hard enough” and then “see” the resurrection.  They actually saw the evidence first and then they believed.  The resurrection is rational, not irrational.

The next thing to note is the personal nature of the miracle.  God wants to meet us where we’re at and not the reverse.  He does not ask us to believe against our beliefs or believe how someone else might believe.  Rather, he gives us the evidence that our hearts require.  If we need to hear his voice, then we get to hear his voice.  If we need to touch his scars, then we get to touch his scars.  God accommodates to us; he does not expect us to accommodate to him or to others.

Of course, since we’re not the disciples, we do not get the same sorts of proof that they got (since they lived during Jesus’ time on Earth, they were privileged with actually experiencing his physical presence).  It would be both irrational and anachronistic for God to reproduce their evidences for us so many years later.  Nonetheless, we can apply the principle of this concept to our lives: our God is a God who meets us where we’re at with the evidence for faith that we need, AND, God doesn’t require us to believe like someone else.

God is a God of extents and levels.  He goes to any extent and down to any level in order to show us his love.  If we press into him, we will find him; he will press back.  God does not leave us hanging, but hangs around even when we are leaving.  He does not require us to trust him blindly, but he asks us to respond to the evidence that he gives to us.  That’s the point.

Here is the evidence that is common to us all: Jesus died and rose again from the grave and offers us God’s forgiveness and love.  Some may believe that more easily than others.  Others may doubt, like Thomas, until you get a little more help.  Still, there comes a point in your faith journey when you have to inventory the evidence and make a decision.  We cannot linger on making a verdict when the evidence is presented to us.  This is like hearing our lover tell us, “I love you (dot, dot, dot)” and then not responding back to him or her.

…especially when that Lover is God.

© Samuel Kee, 2011

Humiliation

samuel kee —  April 14, 2011 — Leave a comment

There’s someone else in her life that’s more important.

Imagine a mom who has to take care of her small children while her husband is away on a business trip.  As any mom knows, this is no small feat.  The children wake up, way too early, and the race begins.  The kids have to be changed, fed, dressed, and bathed, depending on how badly they needed changed.  The kids don’t want to eat, they want to watch TV.  One makes a mess of breakfast, and while mom is cleaning that up, the other kid makes another mess.  And while she is cleaning up the second mess, a third mess is made…Kids are fighting, things are breaking, it’s a wrestling match to get them changed, teeth brushed, hair combed…And before the mom knows it, it’s 11 o’clock and there’s a knock at the door.  Without thinking, she answers the door, only to greet the person with her bad breath and bed-head.  Mom hasn’t had time to brush her teeth, change out of her pajamas, comb her hair, take a shower, put on make up, and make herself presentable.  All because she was taking care of others.  She is completely embarrassed.  You might say, in this instance, she is humiliated.  And what does the person at the door think, “There’s someone else in her life that’s more important!” 

That’s what the humiliation of Jesus is all about.  In Mark 14-15, Jesus is completely humiliated.  This is especially true given the contrast with the rest of Mark’s book.  Before the scenes in 14-15, Jesus is magnified.  Right from the beginning, we’re told that Jesus is God’s Son.  Mark goes on to describe Jesus’ incredible power and authority.  Jesus has authority over every disease, as he heals the blind and deaf and makes the lame to walk.  Jesus has authority over Satan and demons, as he casts out demons from severely oppressed people.  Jesus even has all authority over nature, as he calms storms.  Jesus even has the power to walk on water.  He has complete authority and every right, as the Son of God.

So when the reader gets to 14-15, it’s a complete shock.  In these chapters, we see Jesus humiliated by Judas, by the high priest, by his best friend Peter, by Pilate, by a crowd of people, by soldiers, and by criminals on the cross.  Jesus doesn’t defend himself.  He doesn’t exert his own rights.  He is mocked, spit upon, falsely accused, beaten, maligned, and ultimately nailed to a cross.

In just one short day, his entire ministry comes crashing down.  All the glory and hype come to a screeching halt.  And the reader must wonder at such humiliation.  As the Jesus of Mark 14-15 greet the reader, we must think to ourselves, “There must be someone else in his life that’s more important!”

Unknowingly getting it right, the chief priests who put him on the cross mocked him by saying, “He saved others; he cannot save himself” (15:32).  That’s exactly the point.  He cared for others, just like the mom, so he could not care for himself.

In this sense, humiliation is caring for others at the expense of yourself, in order to put them ahead.  You limit yourself.  You don’t lay hold of your own rights in order to help others succeed.  You become powerless that others might become powerful.

Maybe you need to hear that right now; maybe you’re not feeling too important.  You wish that someone cared for you.  You wish that someone might say, “He’s a very important person in my life” or “She is very important to me, so precious that I’ll sacrifice other things for her.”

“There’s someone else in Jesus’ life that’s more important than himself.”  It’s you.

If you doubt God’s love for you, consider the humiliation of his Son.

© Samuel Kee, 2011

Hole in Your TV

samuel kee —  April 5, 2011 — 1 Comment

The forgiver agrees to pay for the mistakes of another.Let’s say I was skateboarding inside of your home and upon trying some fancy-shmancy trick, my board popped out from under my feet and hit your new flat screen television, putting a lethal hole in it.  I know I’m not off to a good start with this, but hear me out.  Now let’s say that you decide to forgive me.  Whew!  That’s a relief.  I’ll go ahead and say that I’m “sorry” too.

Are we good?

Probably not.  I might be tempted to think that my measly “I’m sorry” makes things all better, but it doesn’t really.  Why?  I might be off the hook, but there’s still a hole in your TV!  And somebody has to pay for it.  As Tim Keller writes in his book The Reason for God, “It just doesn’t go away.”

I want to point something out in the word forgive…ready?  Here goes: forGIVE.  Did you catch it?  Let me try it again: forGIVE.  Did you see it that time?  We must not fail to see the word “give” in forgive.  This means that forgiveness is a gift that is given at the cost of the giver.  The giver is the one who has to pay for the TV.  The forgiven is the one who is given the gift.

This means that forgiveness is costly, never easy, and never just semantics.  Forgiveness is nothing to be frivolous with, either: it’s nothing to joke around about.  When you forgive me for putting a hole in your television, what you are really saying is, “I choose to pay for your mistakes and to absorb the damage that you have done; it will cost you nothing and I will pay for everything.”  The forgiver agrees to pay for the mistakes of another.

The one who says, “I’m sorry” must realize that someone else is about to absorb the cost of his or her mistake.  Saying “I’m sorry” must not be trifled with, either.  The one who forgives is not being fair with the one who is sorry; for fairness would make the wrongdoer pay for his mistakes.  The one who forgives is not being fair, but being gracious.

Grace is the gift that forgiveness gives, all the while absorbing the costs.

When I ask God to forGIVE me, I am asking God to give me the gift of grace and to pay for the hole I put in his television.  I’m asking God to absorb the wrongs that I have done in his house and at his expense.

We’ve done far more than just put a hole in a television; our mistakes are lethal, causing destruction and death at every level in our world.  We’ve ruined it all; and when we ask God to forgive us, we’re asking him to fix it all at his expense.

God answers our request by paying for our sins with the life of his Son Jesus, whom he offered on the cross for our sins.  That’s what God gives-for us to forgive us.

Actually, God forgives us long before we ask him to, which displays his ongoing heart of restoration and love for his creation.  He loves us and love is the basis for his forgiveness.  Even though it costs him dearly, he is willing to pay for the ones he loves dearly.

To be forgiven is to be paid for and therefore set free from the debt that we owe.  We owe God nothing since he paid for everything.  We are no longer chained to our mistakes, since Jesus has set us free from them.

We are under the rule of grace, though we are prone to forget.

© Samuel Kee, 2011